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What is success?

It's important to understand that success is subjective, success is just achieving a goal you set out to achieve.

Success to you might be that you are the owner of your own business that turns over enough money for you to live off, maybe success for you is passing an exam or losing weight, it could even be scaling your current business or running in a marathon?

The thing is, you're here because you don't know how to reach your goal or because something is holding you back, either way it doesn't matter, I've got your back.

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What can hold us back?

The short answer is, we hold ourselves back and the reality is, it is always deep rooted and on the surface may look like;

  • Lack of motivation

  • Fear of success

  • Fear of failure

  • Low self worth

  • Low confidence

  • Imposter syndrome

If you are ready now to achieve your success, then let's get on it, you can pop me an email by CLICKING HERE to book in for your complimentary call.

You may not be aware of what is holding you back or what kind of help you need, you just know you're stuck - brilliant, this is exactly where I come in. If I can't identify the cause of your problem or issue during your complimentary call, then I am not the right person to help you.

FEAR OF FAILURE

Here is the reality… The only thing stopping you, is you, BUT, it’s not as straight forward as that, is it?!

 

Because you have this niggling thing in your mind that doubts everything, it makes you question yourself, whilst on top of all that you’re thinking “OMG, WHAT WILL OTHERS THINK!”

 

Ok, so we know what’s going on, but why?

 

Somewhere, somehow, you have felt shamed, embarrassed, humiliated, upset, criticised in some way, shape or form when you have done what you felt was your absolute best and you were proud of what you done.

 

This theme has probably been repeated in similar situations, and because of this you have built up defence mechanisms, so you don’t have to feel any of those aforementioned feelings.

 

It is this very thing that is holding you back from reaching any kind of success you want to achieve.

 

The good news is, it can all be fixed, you no longer have to live with the defence mechanisms you have learnt that are protecting you from feeling hurt and preventing you from being successful.

 

You can start by doing what you want to do that will give you success and ignore what everyone else thinks.

 

Forget what others say or think, they are not living your life. It is easy to judge, it takes a special person to support.

FEAR OF SUCCESS

This is all about how you value yourself; low self worth/self esteem, lack of confidence, you may feel that you do not deserve to be successful.

A fear of success is often caused by being knocked back when you have worked hard for something or wanting to do/try something. Perhaps you come from a background where successful people are far and few between. It is possible that you have been told that you "won't amount to anything".

 

Because of this, you'll be doubting yourself, second guessing all the time, procrastinating, you may even be experiencing confusion or internal conflict.

Fears of success can be overcome and you can start by replicating those that have already achieved what you want.

SUMMARY

It is important to understand that the symptoms and causes mentioned are not set in stone and it only takes one of the situations above to happen to have caused an impact on you.

If you can relate to any of these issues above, then please do click the link below to contact me for a Complimentary Call so we can make you a success.

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